This is.
Friday, May 31, 2013
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
the prestige
I just had a dream that Elton John was on an outdoor daytime stage
with an invited fan to his left playing and doing some fantastical
tricks on an upright piano he was making sound like a grand.
After she responds by showing some gumptions and trying to really play something, he responds by doing a hearty impression of some R&B/neosoul-ish song of recent vintage that would be sort of impressive if he knew, but I really liked.
This is what happens when you're two phones failed to roust you enough that you come out of sleep.
Whatever the song is, it has resulted in something that was completely made up by my brain called "Where Did/Does Love Go (and Have You Found Out the Meaning)" which sounds to be remarkably inspired by René & Ángela's hit "My First Love".
There was no music playing while I was asleep, save for whatever accompanied my roommates television watching.
Such is what my brain is capable of in its sleep mode.
After she responds by showing some gumptions and trying to really play something, he responds by doing a hearty impression of some R&B/neosoul-ish song of recent vintage that would be sort of impressive if he knew, but I really liked.
This is what happens when you're two phones failed to roust you enough that you come out of sleep.
Whatever the song is, it has resulted in something that was completely made up by my brain called "Where Did/Does Love Go (and Have You Found Out the Meaning)" which sounds to be remarkably inspired by René & Ángela's hit "My First Love".
There was no music playing while I was asleep, save for whatever accompanied my roommates television watching.
Such is what my brain is capable of in its sleep mode.
Monday, May 13, 2013
"The mistake is continually made of considering these types as transitions between absolute Caucasians and absolute Negroes."
"No such absolute type ever existed on either side. Both were slowly differentiated from a common ancestry and continually remingled their blood while the differentiating was progressing. From prehistoric times down to to-day Africa is, in this sense, primarily the land of the mulatto. So, too, was earlier Europe and Asia; only in these countries the mulatto was early bleached by the climate, while in Africa he was darkened."
Du Bois, W. E. B., 1915, The Negro (p. 8). Kindle Edition.
Monday, May 06, 2013
Reachin'
Just saw this chile go all the way down the back of her sports tights to adjust her thongly doings.
Perhaps she thought I'd left the room.
Hopefully she washes her hand before she touches the food.
Perhaps she thought I'd left the room.
Hopefully she washes her hand before she touches the food.
Saturday, May 04, 2013
For the first time. ever
"Say I ain't tryin' to, to - whatchu call that shit - stereotype, but you got some weed?"
respect and appreciation.
new york is slightly less horrible tonight.
(walking north on the west side of ave A btwn 7th/8th)
respect and appreciation.
new york is slightly less horrible tonight.
(walking north on the west side of ave A btwn 7th/8th)
Monday, April 29, 2013
Glowrious
Tonight, after seeing a reading of a friend's play that I find interesting and genuinely good, I was standing around running my insufferable yack as is my general wont when one of the actors came over. She introduced herself and said that we'd met before at an audition (which is entirely possible, I have come to accept that I have already come across anybody in this city who is "of color" and an actor), though I wouldn't recognize her because her hair was straight at the time.
Then she stated that she remembered me because I was so pretty.
Now, I have been complimented for appearance in the past, and used to dress kind of nice and was likely referred to for at least some time as a pretty boy, but never quite in this manner....it was strange as a male....and..just strange.
She went on thought to explain that she meant I had a "pretty aura"....
The other lady I was speaking to at the time (whom I'd just done a reading with) agreed.
??
Hm.
A pretty aura. Interesting.
I guess I'd had a good audition? I try to be encouraging regardless of my relationship to the audition room on that particuarly day. Performers go through enough. I feel like if I'm going to not get it, let me not get it because someone brought that fire: so let me radiate some heat.
You know?
...
It's difficult for we self-deprecative curmudgeons to accept praise, particularly when it might suggest we are anything but wholly curmudgeonly creatures.
So ... "pretty aura".
hm...
interesting.
:-#
Then she stated that she remembered me because I was so pretty.
Now, I have been complimented for appearance in the past, and used to dress kind of nice and was likely referred to for at least some time as a pretty boy, but never quite in this manner....it was strange as a male....and..just strange.
She went on thought to explain that she meant I had a "pretty aura"....
The other lady I was speaking to at the time (whom I'd just done a reading with) agreed.
??
Hm.
A pretty aura. Interesting.
I guess I'd had a good audition? I try to be encouraging regardless of my relationship to the audition room on that particuarly day. Performers go through enough. I feel like if I'm going to not get it, let me not get it because someone brought that fire: so let me radiate some heat.
You know?
...
It's difficult for we self-deprecative curmudgeons to accept praise, particularly when it might suggest we are anything but wholly curmudgeonly creatures.
So ... "pretty aura".
hm...
interesting.
:-#
Friday, April 26, 2013
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Friday, April 19, 2013
On in-permanence and the ephemeral nature of wonderful old people who you wish would be there forever
(Below are a couple long e-mail responses sent a few years ago to a friend who had just graduated to that part of life when she became a member of her middle generation - her parents are now the oldest generation, a bit of the details about my experience during my progenitors' lastdays/moments and a bit of my ramblings about us as a species, just-sort-of-come-across-without-looking while doing this morning's email survey. Italics indicate additions for clarity.)
___
I'm unsure if I ever laid out this timeline, but...
In February of my second semester at college, the phone woke me up one morning. It was my mother who called to tell me that my Aunt Gwen was dead.
Out of the blue
They came and got me for the funeral, and I went. I flew back to Houston - it was the only time I flew while in school...actually it was the first time I'd been in a plane since the single digits and the last until I was in grad school many years later....
I know I talked to my grandmother during that, but I've no idea what I said or what the last thing she said to me was,
but I know that was the last thing she said to me, or least the last time I heard the voice that I recognized...
Two weeks after my aunt's funeral, she had a stroke and never regained the use of more than half of her body. It probably wasn't even half.
The last time I spoke to her and she was at all lucid, it was at my aunt's house . At that point I think she could utter sound, but used a block (a kid's letter block) to indicate responses and a basic hand signing system that she and her daughters had worked out. She could use one hand enough to wipe her face a little - she could (not) close her mouth fully, so saliva would run down her cheek. I don't remember what I said and didn't really know what to say...much as I doubt I knew what to say the last time I saw her standing...
Something blandly encouraging..I don't know.
I didn't stay in the room long. I leaned down and hugged her a little or kissed her cheek; I think I was worried about making her feel self-conscious of her getting my face wet. I think she
reached up with the arm that wasn't paralyzed.
That was probably 3 months after the stroke.
She'd go on to have another two strokes before passing as the sky was becoming dawn-colored on the first day of the following year.
She was 3 weeks shy of turning 66 (according
A few months later, my other grandmother, who'd lived for a few years after having her first stroke and
The only grandfather I've ever known was her husband. He'd passed back in October of 1991. The last time I saw him was in a hospital with my dad. I remember my dad handing him his urinal so he could relieve himself. I thought of that later when I had my night's stay for my knee surgery. I tried the urinal. I failed. I had to change beds. He had a better handle on his situation than I did*.
That gaunt, tired face is what I see on my father more and more.
Along with his mother's bowed, stubby, African forest, super-calf
legs.
(I assume that's where he gets it from anyway).
I never really knew any of them. I think I tried to talk to my maternal (Annie M.) once while I stayed a couple weeks with her before college. Don't remember (much of) anything about it. My paternal (family) (Marie B.) I spent far less time around. They lived farther away.
My mom's grandmother actually outlived my grandmother. She died while I was up here. No excuse for not trying to talk to her more.
My mom tried to find out about her biological father from her, but didn't really get anything.
(shrug)
(friend: But what does one do with all of one's grandparents passed on?)
correction - Marie B. was a year after Annie M. I had one family death near me for each of my first 3 years of school.
You prepare your self to be the vessel to pass what they had on to those who never knew or barely knew (them).
I think more and more that we are far more like ants than we think...humanity is a colony. Like mold >:)
We all birth, we all live, we all die.
But we exist as a whole...each individual life is not so important as we like to make it in the "West".
As one of us is born, we are all born,
so on with life and death.
We are nothing without the connection. I used to think that greatness justifies the connection, but it is the connection that inspires greatness ( I think ).
Thus, we come and we go.
WE come and WE go.
The only way to deal with the loss, is to perpetuate them.
And I don't mean "they'll always be alive as long as we remember...."
I mean pass them on in spirit as much as they passed on their DNA. Understand what they wanted to give. Eventually you understand it the way they did.
About that time is probably when it will be time for someone to pass it on for you (us).
Human life really is a blink. You have your eyes open for a while,
and then blink.
___
*(it is only now, 3 years later, that I recognize this unintended pun and insert a posthumous rim shot)
___
I'm unsure if I ever laid out this timeline, but...
In February of my second semester at college, the phone woke me up one morning. It was my mother who called to tell me that my Aunt Gwen was dead.
Out of the blue
They came and got me for the funeral, and I went. I flew back to Houston - it was the only time I flew while in school...actually it was the first time I'd been in a plane since the single digits and the last until I was in grad school many years later....
I know I talked to my grandmother during that, but I've no idea what I said or what the last thing she said to me was,
but I know that was the last thing she said to me, or least the last time I heard the voice that I recognized...
Two weeks after my aunt's funeral, she had a stroke and never regained the use of more than half of her body. It probably wasn't even half.
The last time I spoke to her and she was at all lucid, it was at my aunt's house . At that point I think she could utter sound, but used a block (a kid's letter block) to indicate responses and a basic hand signing system that she and her daughters had worked out. She could use one hand enough to wipe her face a little - she could (not) close her mouth fully, so saliva would run down her cheek. I don't remember what I said and didn't really know what to say...much as I doubt I knew what to say the last time I saw her standing...
Something blandly encouraging..I don't know.
I didn't stay in the room long. I leaned down and hugged her a little or kissed her cheek; I think I was worried about making her feel self-conscious of her getting my face wet. I think she
reached up with the arm that wasn't paralyzed.
That was probably 3 months after the stroke.
She'd go on to have another two strokes before passing as the sky was becoming dawn-colored on the first day of the following year.
She was 3 weeks shy of turning 66 (according
A few months later, my other grandmother, who'd lived for a few years after having her first stroke and
The only grandfather I've ever known was her husband. He'd passed back in October of 1991. The last time I saw him was in a hospital with my dad. I remember my dad handing him his urinal so he could relieve himself. I thought of that later when I had my night's stay for my knee surgery. I tried the urinal. I failed. I had to change beds. He had a better handle on his situation than I did*.
That gaunt, tired face is what I see on my father more and more.
Along with his mother's bowed, stubby, African forest, super-calf
legs.
(I assume that's where he gets it from anyway).
I never really knew any of them. I think I tried to talk to my maternal (Annie M.) once while I stayed a couple weeks with her before college. Don't remember (much of) anything about it. My paternal (family) (Marie B.) I spent far less time around. They lived farther away.
My mom's grandmother actually outlived my grandmother. She died while I was up here. No excuse for not trying to talk to her more.
My mom tried to find out about her biological father from her, but didn't really get anything.
(shrug)
(friend: But what does one do with all of one's grandparents passed on?)
correction - Marie B. was a year after Annie M. I had one family death near me for each of my first 3 years of school.
You prepare your self to be the vessel to pass what they had on to those who never knew or barely knew (them).
I think more and more that we are far more like ants than we think...humanity is a colony. Like mold >:)
We all birth, we all live, we all die.
But we exist as a whole...each individual life is not so important as we like to make it in the "West".
As one of us is born, we are all born,
so on with life and death.
We are nothing without the connection. I used to think that greatness justifies the connection, but it is the connection that inspires greatness ( I think ).
Thus, we come and we go.
WE come and WE go.
The only way to deal with the loss, is to perpetuate them.
And I don't mean "they'll always be alive as long as we remember...."
I mean pass them on in spirit as much as they passed on their DNA. Understand what they wanted to give. Eventually you understand it the way they did.
About that time is probably when it will be time for someone to pass it on for you (us).
Human life really is a blink. You have your eyes open for a while,
and then blink.
___
*(it is only now, 3 years later, that I recognize this unintended pun and insert a posthumous rim shot)
Sunday, April 14, 2013
Yesterday/Today/Just now I -
- let time get away and drove into Manhattan to be on time, got stuck behind a kerosene truck, was late....decided to take a shot by taking a right on Mercer and saw a delivery guy getting in his truck parked right in front of a long line of blocked spaces....got to go home early and was tipped $15 in cash on the spot to "help with gas".
- realized there was MUCH more work to do on the Trek, realized I need to get some pictures of the Raleigh so I could at least get it on eBay before the week started, decided to check craigslist for "bike wanted" - responded to the only there which happened to be asking for exactly what the Raleigh is, offered to come into the city before dark, realized that I had somehow misplaced a necessary part, decided to just be honest about it, ended up more than what I wanted despite all that...
- walked down Columbus trying to make the bus in time to use my transfer, saw a tourist family being oblivious and yelled for a teen to watch out who (of course) responded that she wasn't in the middle of the street (she might as well have been), barked back that she was and that it was her choice if she wanted to die, kept stepping, heard some run trot up beside me and say "thank you for saving my daughter's life" and was thanked by daughter daughter herself a few steps later ("thank you for saving my life").
Then I made the bus.
....;-p
- realized there was MUCH more work to do on the Trek, realized I need to get some pictures of the Raleigh so I could at least get it on eBay before the week started, decided to check craigslist for "bike wanted" - responded to the only there which happened to be asking for exactly what the Raleigh is, offered to come into the city before dark, realized that I had somehow misplaced a necessary part, decided to just be honest about it, ended up more than what I wanted despite all that...
- walked down Columbus trying to make the bus in time to use my transfer, saw a tourist family being oblivious and yelled for a teen to watch out who (of course) responded that she wasn't in the middle of the street (she might as well have been), barked back that she was and that it was her choice if she wanted to die, kept stepping, heard some run trot up beside me and say "thank you for saving my daughter's life" and was thanked by daughter daughter herself a few steps later ("thank you for saving my life").
Then I made the bus.
....;-p
Censhorship y Azucaaaaaar
I am currently having trouble controlling the potty mouth.
I have also gone from craving pancakes to donuts.
The former, I believe has to with waking up @3a and watching nerdflix constantly since.
The latter, I blame on Leslie Knope.
I have also gone from craving pancakes to donuts.
The former, I believe has to with waking up @3a and watching nerdflix constantly since.
The latter, I blame on Leslie Knope.
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